Ghanaian socialite and on-screen personality Abena Moet has set tongues wagging with a controversial statement she made about cheating husbands and their wives.
According to her, women whose husbands cheat are “the happiest in the world.”
Speaking on GHOne’s relationship talk show Toast, Abena said:
“Wait, what are you talking about? My husband is not stupid. If you’re with another woman you know, the men who cheat, they actually have the happiest wives. Do you know why? They make sure that when they get there, because they already know there’s another woman.”
“So it’s the first thing that I say: ‘Hey babe, I’m here, okay, me and my friend.’ The moment you don’t get that, because the men will actually give you the follow-up, Abena, I disagree… Ah, I said the men who will actually give you the follow-up. Call your video. Ah, Mommy, they will call your video. They will say, ‘Oh, I want to come; I’m coming to sleep.’”
Abena’s comment was a sharp reply in contrast to the host of the show, Maame Animwaa.
According to Animwaa, she can forgive a cheating husband, but forgetting the fact that he cheated is nearly impossible.
“When my husband cheats, I’ll forgive him but I’ll never forget. You will never forget — don’t lie. Because listen, even though he’s apologised to you and everything, best believe that on a weekend when your husband comes to you and tells you, ‘Oh babe, I have to go out of town for the weekend,’ sure, he gets there and let’s say something happens — his phone gets lost or he can’t find his charger, blah blah — you can’t reach him for that weekend. The first thing that will cross your mind is, ‘He’s with another woman.’” She said: